No Strings Attached
For reasons I won’t share today, my youngest son was estranged from me for four years. Misunderstandings. Harsh words. Hopeless feelings. I’m still not sure of the whys behind what happened between us, but this summer I landed in the hospital and almost died. Another story for another time. My older son alerted his brother who called the hospital line and I heard his voice. As dreadful as I felt, and, trust me, I don’t know that I have ever felt so horrible in my life, hearing his voice and having a conversation gave me a reason to live. We started texting and then came the pictures of my third grandchild. I knew he had a son, but seeing those pictures as I rested on the sofa after being released from the hospital changed everything. One late summer weekend he and my grandson came for a visit. That blonde-haired blue-eyed [...]
Saying Goodbye
Some days you never forget no matter how long ago it happened. December 23, 2021 is one of those days. I sat in the car and cried that day. The lives that had been destroyed just hurt my heart over and over. I took Coconut in to day care at NEW PAWSibilities and, after running errands, I went to pick him up. The parking lot was filled with cars and I walked in and met a lovely couple who had adopted from us just about a year earlier. They dropped off a Christmas gift basket filled with cleaning supplies and dog food and treats and and even added a box of chocolate for the staff. They were incredibly grateful that we rescued the perfect dog for them and they wanted to make sure we could keep on doing what we do. It was a lovely moment. As I waited for [...]
Peanut Brittle Farts
I was not involved in the making of this story. Every year I give my friend and fellow Rotarian a gallon of caramel corn he gives me his famous peanut brittle. It's not too sweet and and it won't break your teeth as most brittle does. So I brought home the candy on Wednesday, sampled a small amount, and handed the bag over to Gary as I do every year. We talked for awhile and then got ready to run some errands before I went to a book signing. I cam home around 9:00 that evening and the trash can was locked. Gary had chicken for dinner and I figured maybe there were bones and he didn't want my chicken loving dog to rummage in the trash for them. I asked Gary why and he got this sheepish look on his face. "Uh, we forgot to move the candy." "Excuse [...]
Be Kind
One day in the midst of the holiday season of 2021 we went to run in for a few things we needed at Costco. I was picking up pecans and almonds for the caramel corn, [...]
Pretend to be a Time Traveler Day
Today is National Pretend to be a Time Traveler Day. What time would you travel to in your own life or in history? Hands down I'd travel back to June 15, 2016 and leave the [...]
Never Forget
I post this same thing every December 7th because it really sums it up for me. I lived in Hawaii for about 25 years and Pearl Harbor was something that was part of the fabric [...]